Comments on: Individual Experience Theory: Defeating Approach Anxiety and Improve your Dating Success http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/individual-experience-theory A place for me to talk about myself and my experiences, which in fact simultaneously helps other people! The world is a great place :-) Wed, 08 Sep 2010 12:06:43 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: s-man http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/individual-experience-theory#comment-3139 s-man Wed, 08 Sep 2010 12:06:43 +0000 http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/?p=313#comment-3139 Bro, great article but you are missing one thing. You are talking to the logical side of the brain. I 100% agree that some phobias are due to some conditions we have been exposed in our lifetime and things we've seen in movies. I know that jumping from a high building might cause dead or serious injury, even though I have never done it. Why are some people scared when watching horror movies? do they have a bad experience from being injured from seeing a move? Why some women fear from small bugs? :) *and some men too* *cough* *cough* ;-) do you know many girls that were killed by mini bugs? I have read Eckhart Tole's power of now. It's an amazing book, which added a whole new dimension to my life. If you are really in the now, then you are the commander of yourself and can do whatever you want. Because you are aware of your feelings, you could even move the consciousness from your head to another place. I have been able to do it to some extent. About the new women we meet and the fact we don't know what happen is like taking a guy, putting him on a cliff and tell him jump into the water. The water can be deep & clear, there could be stones inside and you might get killed. Anyway, unknown is fun but the logical discussion does not change the fact people will feel fear unless they change their emotional state. You could change it to confidence state, determination state, up-time happy state.. State control is a whole another issue :) cheers Bro, great article but you are missing one thing. You are talking to the logical side of the brain. I 100% agree that some phobias are due to some conditions we have been exposed in our lifetime and things we’ve seen in movies. I know that jumping from a high building might cause dead or serious injury, even though I have never done it.

Why are some people scared when watching horror movies? do they have a bad experience from being injured from seeing a move?
Why some women fear from small bugs? :) *and some men too* *cough* *cough* ;-) do you know many girls that were killed by mini bugs?

I have read Eckhart Tole’s power of now. It’s an amazing book, which added a whole new dimension to my life. If you are really in the now, then you are the commander of yourself and can do whatever you want. Because you are aware of your feelings, you could even move the consciousness from your head to another place. I have been able to do it to some extent.

About the new women we meet and the fact we don’t know what happen is like taking a guy, putting him on a cliff and tell him jump into the water. The water can be deep & clear, there could be stones inside and you might get killed. Anyway, unknown is fun but the logical discussion does not change the fact people will feel fear unless they change their emotional state. You could change it to confidence state, determination state, up-time happy state..

State control is a whole another issue :)
cheers

]]> By: Samuel Shak http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/individual-experience-theory#comment-1864 Samuel Shak Tue, 27 Jul 2010 23:20:20 +0000 http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/?p=313#comment-1864 Amen brother! great article very inspirational and will defiantly think more this way when i approach and will give you feed back in the coming weeks/months. I am actually helping my friend to become better with women and he defiantly needs to man up will defiantly go through this article with him. i think he will benefit a great deal from this as well as me. Defiantly book marked and will be referred to when needed. Amen brother!
great article very inspirational and will defiantly think more this way when i approach and will give you feed back in the coming weeks/months.
I am actually helping my friend to become better with women and he defiantly needs to man up will defiantly go through this article with him. i think he will benefit a great deal from this as well as me. Defiantly book marked and will be referred to when needed.

]]> By: Ross Jeffries http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/individual-experience-theory#comment-13 Ross Jeffries Wed, 09 Dec 2009 01:36:07 +0000 http://www.howtochangelifenow.com/?p=313#comment-13 Here's how I explain it. Tell me what you think: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NU4wbC7ntzI RJ Here’s how I explain it. Tell me what you think:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NU4wbC7ntzI

RJ

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