The shere amount of Dating coaches out there in the world is massive, i mean……MASSIVE!!! The number of them out there is much bigger than i ever realised. Since making a new account on Facebook for my blog, i started to realise just how many there really are. Everyone seems to be doing it, teaching people how to attract and seduce women, one coach may say do this the other says to do that. Some charge astronomical amounts, i have seen some advertised for $10,000 for a 3 hour 1to1 session. That is ridiculous!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but that is wrong to charge that much to learn things i am sure people could learn on there own. However i did see advertised for the same price a ”Personal Enhancement Workshop” with Richard Bandler on his NLP Life Training site…..i would SO pay that though. I mean come on….its bloody Richard Bandler, the guy is a genius. People should pay money to learn from him and not some Dating coach…..Dating skills are really just Communication Skills, which is obviously what Richard Bandler is God of.
Guys should be skeptical of Dating and Pick Up Trainers, the internet has given way to so many new ways for people to advertise themselves in a misleading way. All a trainer needs is pictures of him with girls and guys believe he is amazing at getting them or knows how. Or to put up a video fo them approaching a girl….when they may gave paid the girl to play along. When really alot of them (like me) had a good lifestyle before they got into the Dating world, where they did not need to be conscious of what they were doing with women because the women were attracted to them and the lifestyle they had therefore had alot of selection…so no need to worry how to attract women! Then they started to learn Dating Skills and obviously brought that together with their current life. The only difference between me and them is they charge…i do this for free 
Helping people with this area of their life should be free, its a biological right.
The harsh reality is that…..we are born to Survive and Replicate, therefore we will pay large amounts of money to make sure that we get both of those. To survive we have companies and institutions providing food, clothing, life insurance, housing, mortgages, loans of money, health insurance, hospitals, the list goes on. Food is an interesting one, i remember learning about Price and Demand Elasticity in my Business classes in school. They always gave the example of what is called Indispensible Food Items, which are the ones where no matter what price they are….people will always buy them like milk and bread.
Now masses of people earning an income from apparently providing the ability to help people replicate…..this is something relatively new. You would think that someone providing this service would have a biological edge over everyone else, but most of the time they do not, they have a mental edge that they have developed. Which in reality….is more powerful than someone who has a biological edge because they have developed in themselves a person who is not subject to the deficiencies they may have been born with. This is the future of human kind, learning to be good at anything, beyond what you are born with. I fully believe that who we are born as is not who we will always be.
However….despite it being good to develop yourself to be a person who is not what they were born as, still does not mean you should pay someone else to give you this. Why….Because If you ask any of the originators who created all the Dating and Pick Up ideas out there how they discovered them….they will say from experience. Let me make something really clear now….To teach people on Dating you need alot of experience in the field, but to Date at all ….you only need a basic knowledge of it. Think about it…..most guys spend hours and hours days and days studying how to attract women, paying for this and that….when how long does it take? 10 minutes? 5 minutes? Or basing on my quickest ever….seconds? You are going to meet alot of women in your life….but to carry on your genetic code….you need just 1. Anyone reading this…..stop paying stupid amounts of money for seminars, you will only be married to one person at a time. You can learn all you need to know from going out and meeting more women.
The only difference between the guys who have more women and the guys who don’t is usually down to experience and inner psychology. Thats it. Life has showed me that you can get both of these on your own. Inner Psychology can be different for some, you may need more than yourself, you will need guidance. I would recommend any NLP Dating Coach for this, as they are obviously experienced with using psychological tools specifically for the Dating world.
Obviously guys, its each to their own you can just ignore my view, i understand . So for anyone who wants details on which seminars i would recommend for you or any good Coaches in general, Contact Me.
Sam
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